Letters to Our Sons Project, December 2012

Dear Theo,

Lately you have been astounding me with your incredible growing mind.  You have been able to create and share stories with us, completely designed by your budding imagination.  Yesterday, you demonstrated your ability to pick the baby lock on the refrigerator as well as your ability to hit the stop button followed by the Netflix button on the remote (“I want to watch new show mommy.”).  You are able to pick out your outfits on a daily basis now, and you’ve learned how to put on your coat all by yourself by using the magic “up and over” trick. 🙂  You are now responsible for hanging up your own coat and putting away your shoes when we come into the house.  We’ve started counting down the days until Christmas on the Advent calendar, and you’ve surprised us each day by recognizing numbers we had no idea you even knew!

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And yet, despite all this growth, you are still our little snuggler.  You frequently ask to be buried in pillows and blankets in your “nest”.  You ask to be “held like Baby Theo” and for mommy to feed you your water “like Baby Theo”.

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You’re getting so big, and yet you’re still so very small.  It can be a hard thing to navigate…learning how to foster your independence while also treasuring your snuggles and smallness.


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I know I can’t freeze time, but these pictures are my very best effort to do so.  I want to make these moments last as long as possible.  When you look back on them years from now, I want you to be reminded of all the fun you had growing up, all the curiosity and wonder I noticed in you; I want you to remember a time when your sense of adventure far outweighed the stress and anxieties of life.

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And…maybe selfishly, I also want to be able to recall these days for myself, so that I can remember your tiny toes and your love for your favorite pacifiers (“Old Bluey” and “Old Greeny”).  As much as I’m excited and proud to watch your growth, I also secretly want you to stay small for as long as possible.

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Your Mommy

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  1. Such a sweet letter to Theo! I enjoy reading your monthly letters to Theo and makes me wish that I had done something like this when you and Jimmy were little growing up with the same curiosity and adventurous spirit…although, as I’m blessed to observe Theo’s growth emotionally and physically, it brings back many fond memories of you and your brother 😉 <3
    Mommy (Abuela)

  2. I just love reading your letters Lucy and your photos really give a sense of who Theo is. My oldest also loves to make ‘nests’ and get cozy. It’s such a sweet quality that I adore – especially since he is usually all boy and non-stop movement!

  3. Lovely lifestyle images Lucy! Love each one of them. And what a sweet letter. I’m so glad we are doing this series, and taking note of the sweet things that our little nuggets do!

  4. I love all of the great expressions you’ve captured, Lucy! I can so relate to the excitement of watching him grow partnered with missing the “babyhood” he is growing out of.

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